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WIFE MATERIAL

I’m not going to dwell on how much I’ve been procrastinating my updates because I’ll just bore you with excuses…

Today’s the 21st of March 2019 and I’m writing this by 12:17am. Mind you, I started writing this on the 19th. I’ve successfully resumed at school for second semester. I remember thinking that I’d share my travel experience with you but I was asleep throughout the journey.

Well, I’ve been trying to remind myself that I’m back at school but I’m not sure my brain will be getting that message till next week. I checked my results by the way, they were good, thank God.

In the space of three weeks, I’ve grown taller (better believe it), I’ve gotten a new pair of heels, reorganized my playlist, finally watched new movies, turned 20 and gotten joint custody of this beautiful puppy, Pixie.

Don’t believe what I said about joint custody. She belongs to my friend.

Moving on, there’s this responsibility that comes with taking care of pets. They’re like children in a way because they’re dependent on you for food, shelter, attention, and whatever else you have to offer. Caring for them involves the investment of your time and money.

Responsibility involves being accountable for your actions. You either take the praise or the blame. These days, we shy away from responsibilities. I’m not necessarily talking about delegated duties because it’s a lazy generation after all.. Lol.

Let’s focus on being accountable for our actions. That’s being responsible. We tend to quickly shift the blame to other people when issues arise. It may not be conscious but at the first instance, we tend not to own up to our short comings because there’s always this strong need to justify our actions. Most of us don’t even accept that we’re wrong until it has been consistently drilled into our minds.

Nobody says we shouldn’t try to explain ourselves but we should also take corrections and own up to our mistakes when need be. Responsibility shows maturity. It’s not necessarily by the words that come out of your mouth but your actions. Okay, that’s all for today.

By now, you should have noticed that the title of this writeup doesn’t have anything to do with the writeup itself. I just remembered the other day when my dad called me wife material. ๐Ÿ˜Œ

So, let’s try to be responsible. Amen? Amen. Meanwhile, I have a class by 8 and back to back classes from 11 till 3. I need motivation ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Love,

‘Ruona โค๏ธ

Ps:

How’s school treating you?

On a scale of 1-10, how responsible are you?

Do you love pets? Any experiences?

Who thinks I’m wife material? ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Feel free to use the comment box.

Author:

I'm Oseruona Asak, popularly known as 'Ruona. I've finally put myself out here to share my thoughts since I often need to share what goes on in my mind...

29 thoughts on “WIFE MATERIAL

  1. School is stressful asf๐Ÿ˜ข
    They want to kill me, small final year
    Scale of 1-10๐Ÿค” 7
    I love pets alot especially dogs. Had a couple but right now i have a pomeranian named Rexx
    Nah you’re not๐Ÿ˜‚

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  2. Iโ€™ll consider myself a 9 on that scale, I had this dog once when I was 7 but heโ€™s no longer with us๐Ÿ˜ž. Yeah I love pets and Iโ€™m definitely getting myself a cat

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  3. It’s good to take responsibilities for your actions and learn from your mistakes or other people’s mistakes to make a better you. Mmm about pets … they’re nice but to lie on one’s bed, I wonder. For students, are they not distractions and additional expenses?

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  4. School is stressful asf๐Ÿ˜ข
    They want to kill me, small final year
    Scale of 1-10๐Ÿค” 7
    I love pets alot especially dogs. Had a couple but right now i have a pomeranian named Rexx
    Nah youโ€™re not๐Ÿ˜‚

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  5. See me that was here expecting “wife material” talk , i can see old age is getting to some people , and you’re here claiming someone’s puppy ,if the puppy goes missing we know who to arrest.

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  6. Yes, we really need that responsibility tip. Thank you for it๐Ÿ‘
    School is treating me well.. I mean I’m doing my internship!
    You see these pets stuff…. Isn’t my thing at all… But I hope I grow into liking them one day.
    If caring for pixie is making you feel you’re a wife material… Wake up sister

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  7. I’m scared of pets especially dogs.. I hope to like them someday but for now I’m really scared of them. School is very stressful and I think I’m 8 on that scale

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  8. Nice write up.. I needed the responsibility tip. I’m scared of pets especially dogs.. I hope to like them someday but for now I’m really scared of them. School is very stressful and I think I’m 8 on that scale

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  9. Nice read. Here’s my take: On responsibility…you can’t run away from it if you plan to impact positively and be a better person. On pets…mmm…I guess Ruona got to love pets, dogs especially, cos she grew up with an alsatian (Dusty) in the house. Pets are nice to be with…but it depends on what type of pet we are talking about. I don’t like cats. I certainly will not have snakes for pets! On wife material…several factors comes to play…but there’s one you can always count on…the fear of God!

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  10. I havenโ€™t really started classes yet but I know this semesterโ€™s gonna be hella stressful; taking care of my baby(Olivia), caring for my husband and also looking after that naughty dog (pixie) am happy u agreed to joint custody๐Ÿ˜„ of that dog.
    For that responsibility part I think 9 ๐Ÿ™„, u know I have a lot on my plate.
    I love pets, I plan to have kennel of dogs for sale later in the future.
    That wife material part emmmโ€ฆโ€ฆ..

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  11. ell in whichever way school is treating u then that’s same with me. Scale 1-10: I will say 10 and yes i love pets.. And yeah, i can say u are a wife material (i knw you don’t care for pixie because u could not sacrifice a common wristwatch for her)

    Nice subject by the way…. All ur course mates really need to read this

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  12. Mean!! Here i was, expecting a talk on ‘wife material’, lols.
    Nice write-up.
    I feel as tho you still owe us a write up on wife material!!
    Hey, you wetted our appetites so satisfy it๐Ÿ˜œ

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